Grandpa in Louisville

Italian Diaspora

Book-ended by the French Revolution and WWII are the stories of millions of Europeans whose lives were transformed during the age of industrialization and scientific advances. These years resulted in massive change upending the quiet rural existence of my family which had been living in Gromignana, Italy since arriving there in the 1400s, likely escaping a plague ravishing the Italian port city of Livorno. The plagues pushed populations to disperse. Will modern pandemics spur a similar exit from our cities and/or eventually from the planet? My two grandfathers were born in Gromignana in the late 1800s into an opposite type of crisis. Medical advances during this time period resulted in the acceleration of population growth. The results of declining infant mortality and rising fertility rates were an overabundance of people. During the 1800s, Gromignana, a small mountain village in the Tuscan Apennines Mountains, experienced a population explosion. The families of Paolo Mattei (1775-1858) and Jacobo Grisanti (1770-1852), combined, had a double digit number of children living into adulthood. These individuals then spawned larger and larger families of their own. Not death, but life, and too much of it, became the challenge. What a strange turn of events! The crisis became: How would all these children be clothed and fed? Whom would they marry? Where would they live and work in adulthood? Their community would change as the young began an exodus unabated throughout the twentieth century.

Just A Few Too Many!

A plate of food with some meat and vegetables on it
Photo taken in Gromignana Italy circa 1905
The white bearded Domenico Grisanti (1821-1907) is one of Jacobo’s sons. He and wife Filomena Casani (1839-1911) are pictured here with family. He and Filomena had nine children. (Paolo Mattei, not pictured, had about the same number of children with two wives). The tall man (back left), is David Alimede (Innocent) Mattei (1879-1952), a Paolo grandson. He married Domenico’s youngest daughter, Armida (1871-1954), who is possibly one of the women close to him. Also possibly in the photo, Domenico’s oldest child Adelasia (1859-1903), whom my mother is named after. Adelasia married Giovacchino Mattei (1856-1945), man with the rifle, right front. His another Paolo grandson. Loretta Mattei (wife of John Mattei in Australia) shared that “The lady standing second from left (white blouse) is Angela Grisanti – my husband’s maternal grandmother, and we believe the lady standing next to her was her sister Semira.” Among the children are most likely my grandma, Mary Amerisa, and some of her siblings who were Gusty, Zeffira, Dondo, Ivo, Dornia, Deo and my grandfather, Pellegrino, and his siblings Medo, Assunta and Maria (Rusha). BUT who knows? Obviously the photo is taken during a special event by a professional photographer. Could it be a significant birthday or anniversary? Giovacchino likely killed the main dish for the celebration dinner with his long gun! I wonder what the menu might have been, and who did the cooking. Note that there are only three grown men in the photo. Most adult males at this time were in NYC, London or South America making/selling plaster statuary and figurines, raising money for their families.
(Photo compliments of Loretta Mattei received from Nada Mattei (nee Moscardini)

One Ventures Out

Pellegrino Mattei, born April 15, 1889, is a great grandson of Jacobo Grisanti and Paolo Mattei. He first stepped foot in America at the age of 15. According to the Lombardia ship manifest Pellegrino arrived on January 13, 1905 in the company of his uncle Clemente Grisanti (a son of the Domenico pictured above). The manifest states that Pellegrino would live with “his brother, Inocenzo at 154 West Houston St, NYC; however, Inocenzo was actually a maternal uncle and a business partner with Pellegrino’s father Giovacchino. This is all very complicated as specific Mattei and Grisanti families were closely related due to the two Grisanti sisters marrying two Mattei cousins (noted above). Over time I’ll unravel the relationship puzzle, but for now, the focus is Pellegrino.

Family Business

My grandfather, along with his other Mattei-Grisanti relatives, worked for the GCJ Mattei Company in NYC. The company was established in New York City in 1892 by my two great grandfathers, Innocente and Giovacchino, (who were cousins) and Casmiro, maybe Innocente’s brother. My Uncle Dominic told me their business location was close to the Cable Building, which makes sense as they all lodged at 154 West Houston St and the iconic Cable Building was located at  611 Broadway at the northwest corner with Houston Street in NoHo and Greenwich Village. Like many, including the three CGJ founders, Pellegrino would come and go from Gromignana to America. We know from oral history that Pellegrino returned to Italy to become a cook in the army during the Italian occupation of Libya prior to WWI. Later ship manifests prior to the war show his American arrivals in 1911 and 1913. These trips show his destination as Louisville, KY to live along side a cousin Giovacchino (1889-1964), who, according to the 1913 Carson Directory, worked as a caster for Ziffero (Jake) Grisanti at his Statuary in Louisville (much more to come on this business). Pellegrino would finally settled in Louisville in March, 1920. In April, 1921, Mary Amerisa Mattei (CLICK HERE to view her profile) became his wife. Pellegrino and Mary would reestablish the NYC GCJ Mattei Company in Louisville with equipment my grandfather received as compensation for his work at the Grisanti Statuary Company. Right before the outbreak of WWI many former NYC GCJ Mattei Company employees would move to Louisville to live and work for Zeffiro (Jake) Grisanti. Among them, my great uncle Constantino (Amerisa’s brother), Vincenzo Mattei and many others. (AGAIN, much more on the Mattei and Grisanti businesses in future posts).

Dreams Come True

Like many young men of his generation, my grandfather traveled the world even before reaching what we would now consider adulthood. He left his small village to work for his family’s well-being. He then found himself in foreign lands due to the “rekindling of the notion of mare nostrum” after the unification of Italy. The hope of a “New Roman Empire” collapsed after WWII, yet one lasting effect was a generation of fearless and curious travelers. As a youth, it is unlikely that my grandfather ever had overarching dreams. He followed the needs of his family, joining his father in the plaster business, providing income for his family back home and supporting his country when called upon. This is an immigrant story for all the ages. Crisis, change, calm. REPEAT! The dreams begin when the crisis passes, change becomes the new normal and there is a moment of calm to take a breath and wonder. According to my mother, Della, her father began dreaming as he approached his retirement in the early 1940s. The family business had survived the Great Depression, and GCJ Mattei boomed during and after WWII. Pellegrino’s dream of a small farm outside the city became a reality (CLICK HERE to view Shelbyville Rd Memories.) Then he envisioned travel. According the ship manifests in the 1950s, he and my grandmother, along with other close family made extended trips, usually 6 to 8 months, to Italy.

A plate of food with some meat and vegetables on it
Pellegrino, Amerisa & son, Jack…departed NYC on the Conti Biancamano 21 March 1950
A plate of food with some meat and vegetables on it
Pellegrino & Amerisa at St. Peter’s Square, Rome Italy 1950 trip.

A Dream Unfulfilled

The big dream Pellegrino started planning in the late fifties, after the death of his son, Jack (1922-1957), would never come to fruition. My grandfather loved to read and had a collection of travel magazines he kept in a pile on his Shelbyville Rd living room desk. I remember the magazines vividly from my childhood, as he would let me read them when I visited. Each of the pamphlet-type books had pictures in the back that were suppose to be glued into the boxes on the pages. While I read, flipping to the back to see the pictures proved annoying. One day I asked grandpa if I could paste the pictures in their designated place but he briskly said, “no, the books are for reading.” This scared me and I never read the magazine after that incident. A warm and cuddly grandpa, he wasn’t. He did buy my brother, Mike, and me a soda from a machine once on a shopping trip, and we were both amazed at his uncharacteristic kindness. Pellegrino, died unexpectedly on February 4, 1960. I was 10 years old. He never realized his dream of going around the world with my grandmother. Eventually, my brother, Mike, who is Pellegrino’s oldest grandson, circumvented the globe with his wife Theresa in 2016. On that occasion I felt that Grandpa would have been happy that a descendant succeeded where he had not. Theresa and Mike followed the path of T’s great grandmother, Zorayda Welsh Cochran (1868-1956) and her great aunt Katherine Cochran Dow (1912-1997).

I would love to hear from my Louisville cousins about any of their memories of Grandpa Pellegrino, the shop and/or life on Shelbyville Rd. Contact me at julie@deliciousmemories.com

3 Comments

  1. Theresa Mattei on April 19, 2020 at 12:55 pm

    Lovely family history and great photos, Julie. Always have heard so much about ” Pater”, that family height came from him & his 5/10 wife! Thanks for the nod to my family history , as well. T.



  2. Kathy Bowie on April 20, 2020 at 3:11 pm

    Hi Julie,
    Thanks so much for sharing your family history. So many of our stories are similar. It encourages me to dig deeper into our family’s journey from Italy to the states. Thanks again.



  3. Diane (Waters) Mattei on March 27, 2021 at 12:39 am

    Thanks Julie for all this information about Grandpa. My memories of him are quite a bit different from what you said about his personality. He was always warm, affectionate & generous to me but then again I saw him, literally everyday because our house was right next to their’s on Grandma & Grandpa’s property. The house we lived in was a smaller barn originally between G&He’s house & the large barn off to the left side as you looked at the front of their main house. When Mom & Dad got married Dad & Grandpa turned the smaller barn next to the main house into a ranch style house. They did an amazing job cause it never peeked like it was a barn to me. Grandpa Mattei died when I was 4 1/2 years old so I had 4 1/2 of wonderful memories of him. I was over at their house everyday after breakfast & followed Grandma around everywhere watching everything she did & helped as much as I could as young as I was. Grandpa would come home for lunch everyday, at least it seemed like everyday, and I would wait on the long gravel driveway for him to come home. I was always so excited cause he would always have a piece of costume jewelry for me in one suit coat pocket & Hershey bar or bag of M&M’s in the other. I’d get my presents & go into our house & lay on the floor to watch I Love Lucy reruns & enjoy my treats; he would go into the big house & have lunch with Grandma. On days he wasn’t working I had wonderful memories of sitting on his lap at the kitchen table while Grandma was cooking & he would make me thick slices of Italian bread with cold slabs of butter on it & he would draw pictures or color with me & he taught me Italian. Mom said I would walk around speaking Italian that Grandpa taught me. Sadly, after he died & because I wasn’t using it I had forgotten the Italian I had learned….. I was over at their house, we called it the big house, all the time following them both around or I would watch them working in the vegetable garden they had in between their house & ours. Grandma let me wonder around the house & didn’t seem to mind if I went exploring. She had a narrow walk-in pantry right next to her kitchen & I would go in there to see what I could find. One time I saw a package of ladyfingers & asked her if I could have one, she always said yes & after that she made sure she always had some in there for me now that she knew I really liked them. She had a ringer washer in the kitchen & when I got curious about it she made sure I understood not to ever touch the double rollers on top or it could really hurt me. I never bothered with it cause even at the young age that I was I knew to always mind Grandma. She was a woman of few words so you really listed when she did say something…. I sure miss them both….